like either a dumbass posting stupid shit, unfair bans, idiotic arguments, etc etc. i feel so incredibly stupid letting it affect me at all, but then also there’s real feelings mixed in there because it’s a real argument i give a shit about to some degree. so it’s this odd double crossing where i know it’s stupid but i process it as being real.
bonus points for not answering ‘go outside drink water read a book’ etc etc
I didnt. I just slowly got over it over time somehow. I have no idea how it happened. Just suddenly i no longer care as much. I think my lack of social media use helps a lot too. Even if im online all the time im not usually online arguing with people. Im online doing my own thing.
I dont think there is an easy answer to this question. And perhaps the answer depends on the person. I figure that is the most likely. That you have to figure out your own path and use other peoples input as a means for directing yourself on said path.