To be fair, the hand wringing activities around exploding heads probably included a lot of soul searching and deciding what is and is not important to the admins. Stands to reason that having learned and made some decisions from that would make the process faster next time around.
15 years for me. I’m not the type to go scorched earth, so I’ll still pop in briefly from time to time from a Google search or to look for something specific, but I don’t use Reddit for near-constant idle browsing anymore, like I used to. Now I have Lemmy for that, although it would probably be healthier to just cut out social media altogether (or severely reduce it).
It’s true, but it only applies to the stuff you don’t want there anymore.
I think they were just expressing empathy. If so, I agree with that sentiment. Your family done you dirty. Hope things are better now, or shortly will be.