This is exactly what I was thinking reading this. The statement seems to be written only from the authors perspective on what they think is proper or not. If the person being purposed to wants a big show of it then the proposer is being a good partner.
I can see where it could be a problem, but to blanket statement that it is a problem if anyone does it reachs to far. Each couple is unique and it’s part of their story.
This is exactly what I was thinking reading this. The statement seems to be written only from the authors perspective on what they think is proper or not. If the person being purposed to wants a big show of it then the proposer is being a good partner.
I can see where it could be a problem, but to blanket statement that it is a problem if anyone does it reachs to far. Each couple is unique and it’s part of their story.