The Thing
Weed is not going to ruin your life the same way like benzos and alcohol would. If you smoke everyday then you probably aren’t very productive, but you are not actively ruining your life.
Weed is dangerous because of how safe it is. It makes you ok with being bored and not progressing/growing as a person. Alcohol addiction will straight up make you homeless.
My bad, man. I was under the impression that you are bragging about drinking so much and didn’t realize you are in a tough spot. I hope you are going to get better soon.