bmoney

You need to get out there and look.

Lots of revolutionary music being made, just not made by industry plants and boosted by bullshit

Tho he is a good singer, the song was basic

cant explain that!

for the children

they will just pay a performance shop, its only a matter of time

lol ive never seen this data about panic attacks and anxiety. i go to the DR and therapist so im pretty sure im not living with elevated anxiety. and 48 hours is pretty easy to withhold. say if i go out of the country i dont smuggle weed in.

i think youre 100% on anecdotes. but i dont think we’ve had a lot of studies come out conclusively that say marijuana contributes to mental issues eventually

oh bro then we different. some times a cool crispy glass of water is just so dang desirable. same with a fresh batch of fries man

i dunno about all that. its different for everyone, just like any substance really. ive been smoking weed since i was like 13 and i have never had a panic attack and i dont think its the source of anxiety for me. im almost 40 now. i am def addicted tho, theres no argument there. but i describe it as like a bad habit. like watching too much TV or being too into WoW. its a mental issue

ya as someone who smokes a lot of weed. its not addictive as in like, i get the shakes if i dont smoke but its def more than peanut butter cups

its def addicting, just not physically so. i feel real uncomfortable if my smoke habit gets disrupted.

i think in some ways the zuck, while lacking of morals, is a true believer of, like, living on the web

its insane the amount of money and time has been dumped into the meta verse. i think he would do more if he could justify it

its convenience

reddit has become too easy so people dont care i guess

i dunno man, its wild to me

whats really funny sad to me is how mods get no real respect right now or maybe ever

like are some mods lame, sure, but its a super thankless job that i dont think gets enough cred and thats the part that i think has disappointed me the most. mods are super needed online, and its a shame some people cannot see that

ok bud sure. hope your day gets better

thank you! but the sarcasm is not really becoming

i think im being quite reasonable, which i dont understand how you cant acknowledge that?

i feel gaslighted tbh, why are you trying to make me feel like im offended? i am certainly not but you keep insisting im upset

and if people disagreeing with you is enough to leave, then maybe social media isint for you, and thats super ok. i dont want you too but i cant force anyone to stay, just like the i cant force beehaw

can you not validate the way i feel, acknowledge some of my points as being real?

well i still dont see disrespect or invalidation of they way you feel, unless defederation makes you question what is real around you, which i guess i assumed you didnt feel “crazy or insane” due to people disagreeing with you

and did you even read that thread? this is what you replied to that i saw

right? it wasn’t anywhere near a big deal or an insult to other instances it’s “we don’t have the resources to handle any possible bad actors from big instances with loose >registration requirements, so we’re defederating from them until we feel that we can handle it”

the correct response to this is “oh, okay; hope they figure it out such that they can federate with us again in the future”; people are blowing this out of proportion

how was that gaslighting or disrespectful to the way you felt about it. where am i being disrespectful, outside of disagreeing with you?

Edit: furthermore aren’t you doin the same thing

a reply of yours further down

I don’t believe you to be honest. I haven’t seen any hostility towards beehaw admins, or any toxicity whatsoever on the fediverse at all, whether lemmy.world or otherwise. You claim that the only thing you see is people being extremely hostile. So where are they?

are you not, by your definition gaslighting them?

quote me

i never said that at all. i have done nothing but respect you and your feelings about this matter, while giving you my quite reasonable take

how am i being invalidating and disrespectful?

you are upset, thats ok! i dont think thats invalidating. you get to feel however you want, it is annoying that day 2 of my being here there is already some drama

i just dont agree thats its something to be that upset about or to the severity of the problem

its not blackmail, its not gaslighting, nor emotional manipulation

i just dont agree with the opinions you have stated

you are allowed!

but i dont agree with you

you see the difference right?

ive been in the same threads and I have seen none of what you’re talking about, even looked through your history

mostly it seems to be people trying to reasonably explain thats the game we’re playing. they get to do that, and they will not be the only one. Federation and all this is a fairly new thing, there will be pains like this going forward.

in addition, they have not made it permanent. it was about their carefully crafted community. is that lame? maybe, but thats the point of a decentralized platform. Their admins get ultimate control, lemmy.world gets the same freedom

and further more, the whole reason this spat started was your claim of gaslighting happening to you because of some commenters disagreeing with your opinions. which that doesnt fit the definition of the very serious and very damaging technique

why are you so upset in general? have people said you couldnt be upset about it? or were people trying to explain something about a pretty new piece of software? i

ive looked through your history and its very aggravated.

you do know that i cannot deny you your feelings, no matter how hard i might try? im just a UN somewhere in the world, your feelings are real and your own

you can keep using gaslighting incorrectly too, i aint the word police, but you are using the word objectively incorrectly. which im a sucker for letting people know

but maybe you should think about how your presenting yourself. believe what you want about whatever dude, but you do post here publicly, which implies your willing to have discussion about your opinions

lol maybe this is why beehaw peaced out

because you are super mischaracterizing what ive said. i disagree with your opinion, thats true

i didnt undermine anything, i disagree with your statements

i told you what the definition of a specific abusive psychological technique, which you are not experiencing on behalf of a different instance

im not uncomfortable at all, i just dont want to upset you. which it seems you are

i am not making you question reality, i disagree with your opinions

beehaw can do whatever they want with their instance, that is literally the point of this platform

its not a personal attack on anyone here

is it dumb? maybe

but its not making you crazy