Because I have my own custom domain internally and don’t use tailscale while on I’m on my network physically. But I get the best of both worlds, however I do have Tailscale setup with DNsMasq to set to my domain name anyway instead of using the Tailscale domain

Tailscale with reverse proxy, nothing publicly exposed

This reminds me of Blackberry

They will slowly fade and become an archive

This! if I see people ask for alternatives I will recommend them, but I’m currently not going out of my way to force it down anyone’s throat.

To be honest I found Kbin too confusing, lemmy is a bit less confusing and I’m glad lemmy.ml increased it servers capacity throughout the day, but it was a bit of a mess.

Hopefully the growing pains of lemmy will end soon and we can continue growing the Federation!