Dangling on a hyphen.

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Cake day: July 5th, 2023

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  • Yes, I’m a bit of a moron, but I still want to be fair. In every single community I read the same comment on and on again. It goes something like this:

    People in name_of_community are x.

    With its obvious variation

    name_of_community is y.

    That always sounds to me both strange and nonsensical. Every large set of beings is, obviously, large. We’re always sampling it from a very biased perspective. You may be unlucky in your interactions; or perhaps you’re more tactful; or you’ve connected in a very bad day; etc., etc., etc… So saying that name_of_community is y is just a Quixotian attack on a windmill.

    If that gets you high, elated, if it makes you feel better about yourself because you’re not like them, please go ahead and keep enjoying yourself. But also remember you’re riding an beaten old horse, wearing a rusty armor, and talking nonsense.



  • True. Not everyone agrees. Since I’m just me, I can only speak for myself.

    With this in mind, I would like to hear reasons why you or others don’t agree. I ask in good faith.

    Having an opinion is as natural as being human. I see the world through my eyes, think about in my brain, color it by my life experiences. So there’s always the possibility that I might be missing something important. Perhaps you were persuaded by some strong and much valid point or points.

    If that’s the case, and if you’re willing, can you please share why you disagree?