Thanks for the heads up about the link, the Lemmy client I use has some bugs but I get to report them to the dev so points for me lol!

Check out Kustom Live Wallpaper, it isn’t a launcher but customization for the home screen can be had with some effort or no real effort.

KLWP

Just ask the family member that you want to help what you should do. If the kids are young they like to talk your ear off or play. Many a kid used me as a make shift tree to climb on lol

If you have the means and the love do it.

Someday I’ll know where babies come from.

There is just so much more to it but the reality is I did have a bunch of kids with the same woman and I didn’t want to be a shit parent like mine were so now I can’t see my life without them and it is worth it. As for what the future holds for them as adults and me as being an old man is still waiting to be seen but I wouldn’t turn away that life you described.

There are lots of people who are 40+ regretting not having kids and wanting their own now but it’s just getting tougher. There is always kids in need of good mentors so check out things like Big Brother, Big Sisters or maybe coaching if you’re into sports.

I have 6 kids but I still think about fostering kids since I can’t adopt (they don’t like single parents).

Can I get the Cliff Notes version please, I don’t feel like going through all the steps.

A crazy amount of things, dem ass and titties, a partner you think you’d be together with forever, a partner that didn’t believe in abortions, having one kid and thinking it wasn’t so bad, lying to myself that it’d be no more than 2, did I mention dem ass and titties? Those can be so persuasive when the little guy is doing the thinking.

Dang Englishing is hard.

So it isn’t a comparison but a state in time? 🤔

slow clap and wipes a tear

Boost for Lemmy on Android

I’m seeing the correct URL so I wonder what’s up

To make things much harder/difficult than if it wasn’t.

Well if it isn’t the token complainer of what should be where. Get off my lawn!

Yea it’s beginning to seem like she should be the one here. Who would have thought so many sane people used social media still lol

You are correct, although in my case with my older kids they like to hide that they’re happy when I get home lol

If you noticed what I said in my reply I explicitly state why I used it and in the correct usage. It’s obvious I understand that they are different and in what content to use either of them in.

Did I use it incorrectly? I see it as a comparison of lying vs. not lying.

I imagine any time in history where a family needed loads of kids for labor probably was like “they aren’t a burden when they are free labor” lol

They exists, they are the people who wants kids and can’t have them, the people who think kids can do no wrong, and then there’s my ex-wife who actually is burden by our kids when she has them but doesn’t want to say they are a burden because it would make her look bad lol